Those who do not help you grow, those who try to tear you down or help create chaos, stress or anxiety- CHOOSE to eliminate them from your life...when you choose the path of honesty, kindness, self-worth, and clarity, these people and situations no longer 'feel right' and when you begin to change somehow they drift further away! Know that it IS about improving your life but at the same time you are letting those same people grow and learn in their own way:) We help each other, sometimes we understand how and sometimes we do not. The important thing is that you pay attention to your own life and help yourself FIRST, only then can you help others! Building ourselves from the inside makes us solid like trees! We have beautiful strong roots that stay in the ground and no matter what comes our way, we may sway a little, our branches might move in the wind BUT we remain SOLID! We are very capable of handling anything!
Like they show us when we take a plane ride: they show us a mother and son, the oxygen mask goes on the mom FIRST and THEN on the son's...this is a GREAT example....HOW IS THE MOTHER SUPPOSED TO TAKE CARE OF HER SON IF SHE IS NOT OKAY??? So build yourself strong, become the powerful, beautiful person you ARE and then reach out to the rest of the world. Our journey doesn't end, we grow and learn every single day, but when you focus on building your foundation (it doesn't take as long as you might think) you are good to go! Because the rest, we do together as a society of loving people!!!
With love for you in my heart I wish you clarity and patience to help build your life AS YOU DESIRE IT TO BE!!!
Luv and light ALWAYS!!!