Why not put the "wasted" energy you use to think and feel stressful and anxious towards thoughts that work FOR you, that bring you closer to the things you DO want!!!
You need to take action! When you running around "doing things" or "getting thing done" you are not enjoying your life for you are not letting it flow! You are not letting life unfold easily and effortlessly the way it is meant to! It isn't about "getting it done!" It is always the journey that counts!!! Learn to live in the moment! Each moment! I promise that when you surrender and let go of trying to control everything in your life YOU WILL be peaceful, excited, and well taken care of! You will never know if you don't try. But again...the choice is yours!
Luv and Light always!