To me there is only one difference: those who choose to learn and GROW from their experiences and those who choose to remain exactly where they are, as they are.
I am not saying one is right and one is wrong, I am just pointing out that we CHOOSE in our lives, and with that comes all the experiences attached to those choices!
So I want to remind you that in life YOU are responsible for your own happiness, your own success, your own "failures" and so on.
Stop thinking you are alone and open up! Reach out to someone! Help someone! Life is about loving, sharing, and giving! Not criticism, judgement, and envy! Remember what you give out you get back! Do you want the poison you spread to come back to you? When you're busy judging "your friends" and all those things you say about "those people"....do you really want that for yourself?
The old saying, "do onto others has you wish to have done upon yourself" has been around longer than some of us have lived....and for a very good reason!
So please lovely beings of this beautiful earth SPREAD THE LOVE and nothing else!!!!